So in Oregon, little Tommy or Jimmy asked Mr Stambaugh why he wasn't married. Mr Stambaugh answered truthfully: because he's not allowed to marry a man.
Mr Stambaugh may no longer have a job.
He did not engage in public displays of affection, wear a speedo to work, or behave in any inappropriate way. He simply said who he is.
See, the problem They have with us is that we exist. Their goal is not just to limit marriage. It's to make us invisible.