As you may recall, Judge Walker's decision finding Prop8 unconstitutional did not change anything in CA. Pending appeal, a stay was filed, so that LGBT couples cannot marry. The court was asked to lift the stay, and today refused.
So, people who are not at all injured by same sex marriage (the supporters of Prop8) are more important than loving LGBT couples who are materially and significantly injured by PropH8.
Because protecting their bigotry matters more than our relationships.