We are pioneers; and we need to discuss more clearly how to keep our marriages secure and safe and durable. That isn't political work; it's personal and social work. We're at the dawn of this new era, which is why the success of actual, durable marriages - in providing mutual security, fidelity and responsibility for life - is so important. Maybe we gays can lead the way in resuscitating this vital social institution for the 21st Century.
Maybe we already have.